The FiReCrAcKeR
Monday, June 20, 2005
How much is TOO much?
This entry is going to be like an article out of Cosmo... or Sex and the City. If you don't want to read it... then leave!
Here is my question of the week: How do you display to a member of the opposite sex that you have feelings for them without going "overboard"? For girls, if we come on too strong, guys think we're slutty. If we don't come on enough, they don't think we have feelings towards them. What is a happy medium?
It's the same with intimate relations. If a girl gives it her all at first and doesn't hold back... the guy thinks she's a slut. But if she doesn't reach that "happy medium"... then he doesn't think she's interested or having fun. How do you know what your partner is thinking?
In my opinion, I don't think most girls come on too strongly at first (unless the case being that they really ARE sluts)... at least from experiences i've had, you've gotta hold some back, for fear of coming off as a girl like that!
Haha... plus, if you start dating someone and piss them off someway, then you've got a little secret or or something extra hidden that can make up for whatever ya did. Lol.
Guys, I'd really like to hear your opinions on this. How do you think a girl should act when she's interested in you? Should she hold back? Would you think she was a slut if she didn't? Do guys feel the same way? Do you all feel like we'll think you're a man-slut if you come on to hard?
Opinions welcome!!!
Here is my question of the week: How do you display to a member of the opposite sex that you have feelings for them without going "overboard"? For girls, if we come on too strong, guys think we're slutty. If we don't come on enough, they don't think we have feelings towards them. What is a happy medium?
It's the same with intimate relations. If a girl gives it her all at first and doesn't hold back... the guy thinks she's a slut. But if she doesn't reach that "happy medium"... then he doesn't think she's interested or having fun. How do you know what your partner is thinking?
In my opinion, I don't think most girls come on too strongly at first (unless the case being that they really ARE sluts)... at least from experiences i've had, you've gotta hold some back, for fear of coming off as a girl like that!
Haha... plus, if you start dating someone and piss them off someway, then you've got a little secret or or something extra hidden that can make up for whatever ya did. Lol.
Guys, I'd really like to hear your opinions on this. How do you think a girl should act when she's interested in you? Should she hold back? Would you think she was a slut if she didn't? Do guys feel the same way? Do you all feel like we'll think you're a man-slut if you come on to hard?
Opinions welcome!!!
:: posted by Laura, 1:11 PM
